How To Get Women To Chase You: What You Should (And Shouldn’t) Do

There is a certain type of man who stands out. He captivates the woman’s interest in a way she yearns to be around him. Women can’t get enough of this type of man, and they end up chasing him. They crave his company and attention. How can you become this type of man, and how to get women to chase you? The truth is that there are a few tips and tricks you can use to make things happen.

It all comes down to knowing how to approach a woman, how to talk to her, and how to establish yourself as the alpha male. Here are some tips and tricks to get started.

How to get women to chase you:

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Boost your confidence

You will notice that women flock towards confident men. And that’s who you want to become. A confident man with strong beliefs and a solid personality. You want to show that you believe in yourself and the things you say. A man that doesn’t have enough confidence won’t attract the woman he is interested in.

However, if you work on your confidence level and focus on building it, women will start chasing you. This is key for getting women to chase you. The sooner you start working on yourself, the sooner you will become a desirable man.

Build mystique

One of the issues that men have when they try to win a woman is that they try too hard. They do things for her, and talk to her in such ways in an attempt to come across as more appealing. In reality, the trick is to build mystery. Communicate in a way that she will desire more of you.

You don’t want to let the woman know everything about you. As soon as you do that, it will not feel like a challenge. In the beginning, you want her to know just enough about you so she can get interested. But the truth is that having some mystique around you is what will drive a woman to flock towards you.

Don’t be obsessed

A lot of men tend to obsess over a woman they want to date. They are willing to do anything, and say anything, to make her want them. It’s easy to see why women see this as off-putting. Granted, it does take trial and error to stop being obsessive. It’s a bad habit, and like any other habit, it will take time, effort, and a will to quit.

You want to play it cool and let her know that there are other things in your life that you have going on. These can be your hobbies, work, or social life. You want her to know you have a life and don’t need her in it.

Be funny

The majority of women are looking for a man that can make them laugh. You want to be someone who brings happiness and positivity to her life. You want to be the guy she finds exciting and has a good time with.  Don’t over do it or you will come across as trying to hard. 

When you feel like you’ve become her personal entertainer, it’s time to take it down a notch.  But do feel free to be funny and have a good sense of humor. 

Treat her well

Show respect to the woman you are dating, and make her feel secure around you. Doing so, will show her that you know how to take care of a woman. Women are naturally attracted to men they can depend on if need be.

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Make her win you over

Don’t put yourself on a silver platter, and don’t become a doormat. Women like men that stand up for themselves. Men that are always available and don’t offer a challenge aren’t the type of men women lust over.

Even when you’re deeply in love with a woman, you still need to show that she has to do some work to impress you. A true love connection is a two-way street.

Don’t be easy

People tend to want what they can’t have and women are no exception. When something is readily available, it is perceived as low value. The same is true in relationships and when it comes to finding someone to date.

When it comes to getting women to chase you, coming across as “easy” will lead to her losing interest. Loss of interest means she will have no reason or motivation to chase you. You want to be a man of value, the type of man that a woman will do anything to win over and have in her life.

Use body language

Body language allows you to build attraction without saying a word. You have to match the confidence in your body language with a great look and an interesting personality. Body language can be a great way to subconsciously communicate that you’re worth chasing. Show confidence and charisma in the way you carry yourself.

Be successful

You don’t need to be the best at everything you do, but be very good at something. Women are attracted to successful men that get things done. This doesn’t mean that you have to be a millionaire or a famous athlete.

Instead, pick any area of your life that you have some interest in, and try to dominate it. Men that go after what they want and are successful in reaching their goals are notably more attractive to women. When there is something that you do particularly well, your value goes up, and her interest will peak.


It will take time to work on yourself and become of such a high value and the type of man women will want to chase. Work on eliminating your obsession, neediness, and clinginess. Don’t give her reasons to think she can take you on an emotional ride.

Avoid situations where you will be seen as a man of low value and respect yourself. Be yourself, boost your confidence level, and work on succeeding in other areas of your life.  Be the type of man women dream of, and stand out from the crowd by becoming someone worthy.

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