It’s always devastating to find out that a girl has been cheating on you. Once you get over the initial shock there’s usually only one thing on your mind, revenge. If you do it tastefully, there are quite a few ways to make your ex-girlfriend regret cheating on you.
How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Regret Cheating On You
In order to make her regret cheating on you, you must focus on bettering yourself. The result will be a better version of you she will regret on.
Here are ways to use what happened as an opportunity to work on yourself, and make her regret cheating:
- Move Past Your Relationship
One of the best ways to make an ex-girlfriend jealous is to be in control of your feelings and know what you should do next. The only way to do that is by truly getting over her.
Trying to take actions to make your ex jealous prior to coming to terms with the end of the relationship is a recipe for disaster. Often you come off petty and end up looking stupid.
Instead, you should spend the necessary time it takes to get over your ex. This person cheated on you and you need to realize that you are better off without them.
- Avoid Contacting Your Ex
One of the worst things that you can do is contact your ex. If you initiate the first contact after the break-up you are essentially admitting that you miss her.
If you need to, delete her phone number and either block or hide her on social media accounts. A late-night “I miss you text” never works in your favor.
- Truly Enjoy Life
The next step is to truly be better off without your ex. That means really enjoying all life has to offer by bettering yourself and appreciating new experiences.
You don’t need to flaunt it in your ex’s face. If you come across them often enough, they will surely notice the difference.
- Work on Self Improvement
We all have ways that we can improve ourselves. A lot of times when we are in relationships, we push aside self-improvement for the sake of supporting our partners. If there’s something that you’ve been wanting to work on, take the time to do so.
Some noticeable ways to improve yourself include:
- Learning a new hobby or skill
- Getting physically fit
- Going to a therapist or mediation to improve mental wellness
Again, it’s important not just to work on self-improvement for the sake of making your ex jealous. Eventually, everything that you have worked on will crumble if you take this approach.
Instead, focus on improving something that you truly want to be better at. This will help your ex see that you are better off without her and help you in the long run.
More Ways To Make Her Regret Cheating
Keep in Contact with Mutual Friends
As you start to improve yourself and recover from the break-up, make sure that you stay in contact with friends that you have in common with her.
Exes get curious over time and they are sure to ask mutual friends how you are doing. If you’ve shared with them how much you are changing and improving your ex is sure to get jealous.
Travel to New Places
A lot of people associate frequent travel with success. If you have a trip that you’ve been wanting to go on, now is the time to take it.
If your ex hears about or sees pictures of your travel, she is sure to think about what it would’ve been like to take that trip with you.
Spend Time with Friends
While we are in serious relationships, we often tend to ignore our friends. Take the time while you are still single to reconnect with these friends.
If you have a close friend that is a girl, spend a lot of time with her. Your ex will start to wonder if you two have a thing and you get the added benefit of rekindling a friendship.
Play the Field
Once you’ve had the chance to enjoy being single it’s time to start playing the field. Find a girl that you like and start to date her.
It’s important not to just start dating a girl for the purpose of making your ex jealous. Eventually, either your ex or the girl that you are dating will see right through it. Instead, find someone meaningful, who you could see yourself in a serious relationship with.
Post Pictures Like Crazy
Now that you’ve gotten your life back together and are in a good relationship, post pictures of everything!
Since you truly have bettered yourself and found a relationship for all the right reasons, there is nothing for your ex to see through.
She will try to find holes in your life and relationship. When she isn’t able to, she will be truly jealous and full of regret.
Ignore Her Calls
Not getting a response from you will make your ex jealous and truly regret that she blew the chance to be with you.
After your ex sees your success and happiness, she will want to get back with you. It’s important to not fall into the trap. They say once a cheater always a cheater. She cheated on you and you are truly better off without her.